Last week we stayed in a world-class resort
hotel owned by a former janitor.
My friend, the owner, was dirt poor as a child.
He sold food, candies and cigarettes in the streets. He worked as a janitor to
pay his way through college. His own hotel is one of the most beautiful
things he has built as an architect.
I have another friend with a story to tell.
Rudy Gaspillo was one of ten children by a
sugarcane plantation worker. After high school graduation, Rudy sat down by the
big bamboo plant and wept. He knew he couldn’t go to college because
all his older siblings did not. He cried hard but also prayed hard. Next day,
Rudy’s father said,” You are good at fixing motorcycles, you should study to
become a mechanical engineer.”
“But how, papa,” Rudy asked.
His father went to his employer and on bended
knees he pleaded. “Please send my son to college. To repay you, I will serve
you all my life.” So, Rudy went to college. But he didn’t have
any summer vacation. While his friends played and courted women, Rudy labored
in the farm. A few years later, the result of board exams for mechanical
engineers was released. Rudy was topnotcher No.8 nationwide ! Rudy now serves
in the the work for the poor advocacy of the Couples for Christ.
How can a poor boy succeed in the rich man’s
game of golf?
Juan Antonio “Chi-Chi” Rodriguez was a 7-year
old water carrier in a sugar plantation. He decided to become a caddie because
it paid more. Imitating the golfers, he swung twigs to hit tin cans as
“golf balls”. Two years later, he was already playing real golf on a real course. At only 12 years old, he scored a 67! Rodriguez has been inducted into the World Golf
Hall of Fame. He gives back through a foundation that instills self-esteem in
young victims of abuse and hardship.
Anytime today, you will see Huffington Post on
the Internet. Its founder, Arianna Huffington, was a peasant teenager in Greece
when she saw a picture of the Cambridge
University. She decided, she will study there.
Her family thought it was it was an outrageous idea. No one took her seriously
because she was just a girl, they were too poor for Cambridge, and they
didn’t have connections in one of the world’s most prestigious schools.
The young Arianna Stasinopolous and her mother didn’t give up. They bought
cheap tickets and flew to London. To the family’s great disbelief, Arianna was
accepted on a scholarship. Later on, she even became the first woman president
of Cambridge University’s legendary debating team. In 2006, Time Magazine put
Arianna Huffington on the list of the one hundred most influential persons in
the world. But before Huffington Post became a giant media brand on the
Internet, Arianna wrote a book that was rejected by 35 publishers.
The overdriven Ms. Huffington collapsed on her
hard office floor and woke up in a pool of blood. After that, she wrote a book that redefines
success. In the book Thrive, she said
that beyond success and power is the third
metric: it’s our well-being coming from our inner wisdom, sense of wonder
and capacity for giving and compassion.
My tears fall for stories of uphill triumphs.
Experts have proven that more people root for the underdog be that in sports,
politics, literature and movies.
Among the many studies is this one headed by a
team headed by Josepth Vandello from the University of South Florida. The
research concluded that people back apparent “losers” because we like to see a
team beat the odds. Their victory is always sweeter! The study also discovered
that the unfairly disadvantaged awaken in us a sense of fairness and justice,
which are intrinsic human values.
I think we also relate to the unlikely winner
because there is an underdog in each of us. We can feel inferior to some
people. We may think of ourselves as inadequate. Maybe we feel
unappreciated. Perhaps we’re broken.
Threatened by a giant problem or a serious illness. Overcome by depression and
anxiety or consumed by guilt. Many of us are going through something. Something
bigger than our human capacity.
But underdogs can beat their Goliaths by
believing they can. And by deciding they will.
Al Foxx is a paralyzed, brain-damaged survivor
of a motorcycle accident. Initially leaning into depression, he found a new
calling as a stand-up comedian.Today, he is a famous “motivational humorist”
and keynote speaker. He is the founder of the Winners Don’t Quit Association.
His A-B-C advice is for us to Accept the book that we have been given, meaning accept
what has happened to our life. Believe that we can write a happy ending.
Care for others because “the real keys to happiness are the intimate connections
we have with the people in our lives.”
Most Bible heroes were underdogs. Among the
first disciples were poor fishermen and sinners. King David was the least
qualified in the eyes of his own father Jessie. Jesus himself was not born into
royalty. When being asked to lead the
chosen people, Moses protested, “Oh,my Lord, I am not eloquent, either in the
past or since you’ve spoken to your servant, but I am slow of
speech and tongue.”
It is obvious that God has a
deliberate plan to use “the unqualified” to be a showcase of how faith, hope
and love can work miracles.
When the young church in Corinth was
experiencing the trials of rivalry and jealousy, St. Paul wrote to them, “But
God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of
the world to shame the strong.”
If you’re facing the odds today, believe there’s a plan.
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